::been another long day..so long after my event..i am starting to work on my i&e statement..hahaz..it's 80% complete...so it's almost done..tml go back and touch up should be ok already...

read some blogs earlier on...and came across an entry tt really set me thinking...and i sort of disapprove with wat the writer had mentioned...but also agree on some parts though....

my first point...man are not heartless...it's just tt guys are much adaptable to changes in surrounding..therefore..it seems like man changes heart or feelings easily...guys can readily make changes for the changes in his surroundings...not becos guys dun feel anything...but it;s just tt guys can make changes for the ppl they loved...and try not to give them too much pressure...but it's tt sometimes girls dun understand...and the guy will try to make the girl understand...but if she does not understand it..the guy most prob will just leave it there as it is..cause he knows that it's pointless to explain further...

isn't it better to remain constant rather then lost..but it just reach a point of time when the amount of commitment will be imbalance...and tt's life...nothing's fair in this world...if the world is fair...bill gates wun be the richest man...and there will be no more saints or devils....in regards to a relationship...guys are the ones who usually go after the girls...so it's defenitely the guys will be the sweeter one in the front stages...then following after tt..if the girl starts to fall in love with the guy..there will always be a point by which the feelings start to balance up and life goes to normal...it's not tt the guys only cherish the front parts...and start to lose interest...but it's just tt..maybe sometimes girls think tt guys should take the initiatives and always be the ones doing all the stuffs...it's true that guys should take initiatives...but it's a relationship...we need both hands to clap...don't we...we cannot always be the one to start everything..there are situations where the ladies should have their say first...but it usually happen at the wrong situations...

second point...guys ain't made of a steel heart and we pump blood..not oil...guys can feel pain too...tt's not an exclusve right to anyone..cause every human is entitled to that...so dun take tt out for the guys...after putting so much effort into a single relationship...and seeing it fail right in front of a guy's face..it's not something bearable...but it's just tt guys swallow their pain and not let it out to everyone...

it's not a fake anyone during the honeymoon period...but at tt moment of time...the girl are usually still unsure of their feelings...whereas the guy has already put in 100%...therefore...the guy would certainly remain constant after the honeymoon period..so after tt period of time...the girl might fall deeper in love...or fall out of love..no one knows...and if ur love for tt certain him has increased...the girl cannot expect the guy to increas at the same time..cause from the start...the guy has already been in 100%...but if more expectations are heaped onto the guy's shoulders...it might cause tt feeling to drop..cause the guy feels tt he cannot love u the way he did anymore..cause wat u want...is what he cannot give..

i dunno why i am writing this...and if that writer sees this...i am sorry...no offence..but it's just my point of view..

need a break...see ya guys later...::

.:Ah Hao blogged on 9:38 PM:.
...